Men Are Stupid

I guess the title of this post tells it all. I’m not saying that men are stupid intellectually. I’m saying they are stupid emotionally. It took me such a long time to realize this myself. For years I thought that I was the problem. What a relief it was to find out that I wasn’t.

I spent 9 years in a happy relationship. lol. Let me correct that. I spent 9 years in a relationship that I made everyone around me was happy. In truth, I was the most miserable person I knew. I knew within the first few months that he wasn’t the one for me, but I was determined to make it work. Why? I was pregnant. And this was my second pregnancy. I already had a toddler and now I was gonna have another baby. I was only 23 years old. I had already disappointed my parents once. I was not about to do that again.

So I punished myself for years because I didn’t want to be a disappointment to my parents. I was raised right. I made great grades in school and worked to pay my way, but for some reason I couldn’t make sure that a condom was used every time I had sex. Not only was I a disappointment I was stupid as hell. The situation only gets worse and when I say worse I mean that seriously. No woman should live through what I did, but I’m not going to get into that now.

So after years of misery I was finally out of the relationship. I finally put myself first. Also I finally had a friend that I could be completely honest with, although I did not always tell her everything that had happened. But Ty was there for me through it all. I don’t know how I ever would’ve made it through it without her support.

I also learned that I have horrible judgment in men. I went from a bad situation to a bad situation. It didn’t take me long to start dating. My problem was that I didn’t realize how much other people lie, especially a man who is trying to get something from you. From my experience, this is either sex or money. At one point I thought that I was in control but soon learned that I was wrong. The problem was that I tend to get emotionally involved and the men that I have met taught me that I shouldn’t expect the same from them.

Here I go just ranting away. I can talk about my individual experiences for hours. Ty will agree, my life has turned into a soap opera. But back to what I was trying to say. Men do not think the same way that we do and the definitely don’t do what we want them to do. I have not yet figured out their thought process but I’m going to continue working on that. I need to know why they don’t call you back when they say that they will and when they finally call you back the next day or days later they act like nothing’s wrong. And why do some men insist on starting a text message conversation with you and decide that the conversation is over without informing you. I had texting a guy and asking him a question only to have him take hours to respond or not responding at all.

Whew, let me stop now. Ty and I have lots of experiences to share with you all. Both past experiences and present ones. We tend to be scattered in our thoughts sometimes and go through our personal crisis situations. One thing that Ty and I are both in agreement about is that Men Are Stupid. I’m sure that many other women feel the same way.

So I’m just warning you all up front that you will hear us say this all the time. Men Are Stupid. If we were musically inclined we would put it to music.


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